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Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 6:50:43 PM #40868

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It's not really a discussion and I know it's not really the type of thing to post on a message board, but my head is spinning and I just need to get this out.

I got a text tonight from a good friend, who's girl had recently finished with him after a couple of years. The past week he's been trying to get them back together but she's been giving totally mixed signals, saying she just wants to be friends but then totally making it seem like she really wants it to work out for them. He was pretty confident it would all work out, and they met up today and I saw then at lunchtime, but then...

Tonight's text was to let me know that it didn't go well today- he informed me that they would never be together again, and that he was drunk, had a knife, and thought that he'd gone mad. He couldn't go on living anymore and wanted me to text her to tell her that he was sorry, and that he loved her. He told me he was away from everyone, and that he was sorry, and that I'm a good mate. I tried finding out where he was but he wouldn't tell me, and just kept telling me to text her and asking if I had done it, and saying sorry, and that he couldn't go on and didn't want to live anymore.

I was racing around like a lunatic, I went and told his (step-)dad but he was at home along looking after the young kids so couldn't really do anything or help me look. I was frantically trying to find him and think where he might be hidden. When he stopped replying, I really thought that was it.

When I got to him, he was sitting there almost in a coma of emotion and pain. He was sitting in his car, up a dirt track in the middle of nowhere, hidden behind some big piece of farm equippment. When I saw he was ok I literally sank to me knees in relief. The knife is now somewhere in the surrounding field.

He was non-responsive for a bit but I got him to come around and start talking, and spent ages just talking things through with him, and by the time I dropped him off at home he seemed back on a level head- still upset but I don't think he's quite suicidal now.

My head is spinning, it's even given me a headache, I feel totally drained, and so relieved that he's ok, and kindof in shock at everything that just happened. There's a big chunk of the evening that I've missed out between me seeing him sitting in his car and me dropping him off at home, but I've rambled on enough and offloaded the most frightening bit. All that matters is that he is ok- thank fuck for that.

I'm totally fucked now, so I'm off to bed, try and get some sleep if I can clear my head.

Ein Schrei wird zum Himmel fahren, Schneidet sich durch Engelsscharen. "Mein herz brennt, gib mir kraft." Der kalte Mond in voller Pracht hÃ¶rt die Schreie in der Nacht... und kein Engel steigt herab.

Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:05:57 PM #40873

Dodge Site Admin 'Open foot, insert mouth' Level 19 Posts: 1,989 Submissions: 53	Everyone should have a friend like you. You are a good Man, Coopz.
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Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:12:23 PM #40878

Indy Member 'Garburator' Level 45 Posts: 1,937 Submissions: 95	yeah Coopz, I commend your efforts there, hopefully your friend gets better and as for you, get some sleep.
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Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:16:47 PM #40879

Source421 Member 'hnnggg' Level 19 Posts: 1,308 Submissions: 38	You did a good thing there man, really appreciate your efforts and you're obviously a good friend. Hope you can sleep this all off and that both of you have clear heads in the morning. Pats on back

Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:22:07 PM #40880

PussyLiqour Member 'Pussy "Owner"' Level 7 Posts: 1,070 Submissions: 12	You are a gentleman and a scholar. I somehow feel that I would be that kind of friend to my friends, had the situation arose. But who would do that for me? Shit.

Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:24:52 PM #40881

Dodge Site Admin 'Open foot, insert mouth' Level 19 Posts: 1,989 Submissions: 53	PL, I would do that for you. Unless you said you'd do it with a live feed. Then I'd watch quietly.
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Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:30:08 PM #40882

PussyLiqour Member 'Pussy "Owner"' Level 7 Posts: 1,070 Submissions: 12	Quote Dodge: PL, I would do that for you.Unless you said you'd do it with a live feed. Then I'd watch quietly. Attention pls.

Thursday, April 15th, 2010 at 7:45:52 PM #40884

Tommyboy Site Admin 'GIMME MOAR YN!!' Level 123 Posts: 781 Submissions: 21	Glad your friend pulled through. Times like that can be most trying indeed. I commend you for being there for your friend in his time of need. One good turn deserves another. You have done a good deed and you shall so be rewarded.
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Friday, April 16th, 2010 at 3:51:11 AM #40937

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Thanks guys for the commendations- I feel pretty weird reading them, I dunno, I just did what anyone would do. Please don't think I posted this to get pats on the back or an ego boost. But I do appreciate your kind words. Member Added Image

Feeling a bit more refreshed this morning, still feel a bit weird knowing what he is going through, and thinking about how he might be feeling this morning. I feel so bad for him, it was bad enough before but it's now turned into a very messy situation. I want to text him but I don't want to make things worse- I need to word it very carefully.

Friday, April 16th, 2010 at 5:15:34 AM #40952

DaddySpook Member 'We Are The People' Level 26 Posts: 1,606 Submissions: 132	I hate it when my friends want to kill themselves,seriously. I had a couple of friends that have said they were gonna do it,I just told them they were pussys and to go do it then. Strangely enough they are still alive today.

Friday, April 16th, 2010 at 5:32:13 AM #40957

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I know what you mean, I've had that attention seeking type thing before (lol) but I do dread to think what could have happened last night if he was left on his own. I did very nearly text him when I was looking for him to say "If you were really going to do it you'd have done it by now" but I thought if he then really did do it, I'd have that on my conscience. I didn't really panic too much to begin with because I thought it was just a cry for help/attention, but when he wouldnt tell me where he was or anything and I couldn't find him, I really panicked.

Friday, April 16th, 2010 at 6:16:21 PM #41009

Tommyboy Site Admin 'GIMME MOAR YN!!' Level 123 Posts: 781 Submissions: 21	Give us an update. Is he still ok? Tell him all of YN supports him.
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Friday, April 16th, 2010 at 7:26:23 PM #41017

Coopz Member 'Penis Size: Massive' Level 35 Posts: 2,398 Submissions: 113	Update I'm not going to tell him I posted this anywhere. I think it's ok, as none of you will ever meet or know him, and I've not given his name, and no-one I know comes here. But if he knows I posted this I don't think it'd help. I just needed some outlet though.
	Ein Schrei wird zum Himmel fahren, Schneidet sich durch Engelsscharen. "Mein herz brennt, gib mir kraft." Der kalte Mond in voller Pracht hÃ¶rt die Schreie in der Nacht... und kein Engel steigt herab.

Friday, April 16th, 2010 at 7:41:39 PM #41021

Dodge Site Admin 'Open foot, insert mouth' Level 19 Posts: 1,989 Submissions: 53	You can always delete these threads later if you think he might find them.
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Saturday, April 17th, 2010 at 5:12:09 AM #41043

Source421 Member 'hnnggg' Level 19 Posts: 1,308 Submissions: 38	In fact, you could just delete it a few days after the thread has died, as if it was never even posted here. Edit- wait what, I need to start reading replies more clearly! Oh well, the point still stands
	Post last edited by Source421 on Saturday, April 17, 2010 at 5:15:32 AM