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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 3:45:18 PM #11629
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She just found out she has uterus cancer.

I seem to be unaffected by it.

Maybe it's cause she has kicked me out, for nearly four months (It was this summer, I was only 15) when I was suicidal, and made me feel like killing myself and giving me two of the hardest times in my life. Cheating on my dad, making him suicidal (Depression runs in my family), and kicking him out to live in his van for 4 months. Once I started living with her again she took my sister and left us for her boyfriend (Her old one knocked my brother out cold, and made him get stitches on his lips and gums).

Is this wrong of my not not feel bad? The only thing I feel is guilt for not really caring.

Am I wrong?


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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 3:51:04 PM #11632
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you can't help how you feel....it is quite possible you are in shock, which might feel like not carring but measn you caried so much you fried yourself

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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 4:32:19 PM #11643
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Yes, its possible you're in shock. But then again, after all that, I prob wouldn't give 2 shits either. With any luck she'll have a hysterectomy and it won't spread anymore, unlike her legs apparently, but kinda sounds like the shit my mom pulled. I dont think I'd give 2 shits either.

Good luck anyway tho, we're all here if you need to talk
  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 5:01:45 PM #11652
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In you're brain it is possible to subconsiously feel like your mother deserved it. Even though you may not be aware of it this could explain you're lack of affection by the news. But dw, the family is right here.

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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 5:19:32 PM #11665
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Well Karma IS a bitch...
  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 5:23:17 PM #11669
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What goes around comes around BBH.

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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 6:04:52 PM #11685
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Maybe I am in shock.

I just don't know how I should be feeling. Everything seems so weird.


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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 6:46:19 PM #11706
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Yeah, in like a day the shock will wear off and you will be like, Holy SHIT!

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  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 7:49:09 PM #11718
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Honestly, if I were in your situation, I wouldn't feel very bad either. as long as its not very serious. (yes I know its cancer) but how bad is it?

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Deny! Deny! Deny!
  Monday, January 26th, 2009 at 10:54:44 PM #11726
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With any luck she'll have a hysterectomy and it won't spread anymore

That happened to my mom, she's fine. Your mom will be fine, no need to worry or feel bad.

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  Tuesday, January 27th, 2009 at 10:32:48 AM #11739
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Sorry to hear that...Given the circumstances, I guess it just all came around to bite her in the ass (or a little bit forward)...

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  Tuesday, January 27th, 2009 at 4:41:57 PM #11758
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Lmao, BA has a way of making it funny.


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  Saturday, January 31st, 2009 at 12:46:02 AM #12168
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Cheery now Ecko?

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  Saturday, January 31st, 2009 at 9:50:24 AM #12203
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I guess.


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